I did not play in high school nor college, but wish I had. I was on the tennis team back in high school and was on the ski race team, but no volley

And I was a geek in college, busy finishing my undergrad in just under 3 years - what a nut - shoulda been playing volley!
I learned to volley on the beach in Redondo when I lived in Cally many moons ago (yes, it was sometime after the ice age) - my boyfriend at the time was into it, so we'd play pickup 2's or 3's with whoever back then all day Sat. or Sun. or both. I remember the sand was so hot, it'd burn your feet, unless you had socks, but after a while your feet would toughen up. If you can believe this, it was back before volleyball was popular.
When I got back to NY played in tons of Y leagues - mostly 4's & 6's - sand and indoor. I learned quickly to play almost exclusively in leagues that have refs, which forces people to learn and play by the rules. I've played in tons of pickups, not sure how much I've learned there. Played club many years and learned a lot there - with different teams I have played OH, Middle, and Setter, it's good to learn all the positions. Have done a little coaching of high school club girls volleyball - learn a lot when trying to explain it to somebody or show it-have a newfound respect for coaches. One year I hooked up with these 20 or so Vietnamese guys and we played beach volley every day after work in the sand at the park. At one point I learned how to keep score in Vietnamese, but alas I forgot that part! But I still remember their hustle and never give up positive attitude and pure fun/love of the sport and their amazing vert.! Really incredible! We'd play 'til dark every day! Been to many coaching clinics such as Pat Powers and Al B, learned some more there. I've played 'speed volley' near Toronto, learned some more there. Have played for many years in a men's 3's club sand league - learned more there. And have played 2's grass for a few years and have learned more there. Also played some beach tournies and learned some more there. Last night we played against a team that had a Div I college player. I like to play against tough competition, cuz it makes ya learn. I played in about 20-30 tournaments last year, learn a lot there. Always learning! But you'd think I'd be good by now - lol! NOT! It's crazy late and I just got home from volley...go figure!